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7 Reasons You Should Take a Shamanic Journey

So, now that you understand what shamanic journeying is, let’s talk about some of its benefits — in other words, why is this such an important practice? 

 
 
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This article is excerpted from my mini workshop how to take a shamanic journey. If you want to dive into the full course, be sure to click here to learn more :)

Shamanic journeying is a practice that involves entering an altered state of consciousness to connect with spiritual realms for guidance and healing.

In many ways, we can think of shamanic journeying as a type of meditation — but there are some aspects that set it apart…

First is the intention — you’ll generally enter into a shamanic journey with the purpose of transcending ordinary reality and communicating with the spirit world. 

And second is the idea that your consciousness is actually traveling through alternate realms. We generally refer to these realms as “non-ordinary reality”, and our regular, daily lives as “ordinary reality". 

While some shamanic journeys are embodied, where you do stay in your body and meet with spirits or receive healing in the here and now, the ability to send your awareness into different dimensions and realms of the spirit world is an essential part of this practice — and this is exactly what you’ll be learning how to do in this course.

Seven Benefits of Learning How to Take a Shamanic Journey

So, now that you understand what shamanic journeying is, let’s talk about some of its benefits — in other words, why is this such an important practice? 

1. Shamanic journeying allows direct communication with the spirit world and your spiritual guides.

This is called “direct revelation”, which means that you don’t need an intermediary such as a guru or priest to connect you with spirit. You get to meet with spirit directly and form your own personal relationship with spirituality. 

Shamanic journeying also provides a direct line of communication with your spiritual guides, which might include power animals, ancestors, angels, and other benevolent beings. These guides can offer guidance, wisdom, and insights that can help us navigate life's challenges, make important decisions, and gain a broader perspective on our purpose and life journey.

And, one of the biggest benefits of being able to communicate directly with your spirit guides is that you realize you aren’t alone. You are loved and supported in every moment, and anytime you begin to forget how divinely important you really are, a journey can help reconnect you with this truth.

In this way, shamanic journeying is an invaluable step towards claiming your full spiritual sovereignty!

2. Shamanic journeying helps us work with all levels of reality. 

Shamanism is rooted in the understanding that there are more dimensions to reality than just our physical one. We also exist in spiritual, energetic, mental, and emotional dimensions — and all of these dimensions influence and impact each other.  

This is especially helpful for healing: Addressing issues at the spiritual and energetic levels often unlocks the healing energy we need to see physical improvements in our lives. 

But this goes beyond physical healing to impact your life as a whole. For example, you could perform a ceremony in a journey for blessings and protection on an upcoming trip in this reality. Or you could receive a healing around ending a relationship in your journey, and find that you feel lighter and can more easily move on in your daily life.

Remember, whatever happens in non-ordinary reality will impact what happens in ordinary reality (and vice versa!). 

3. Shamanic journeying allows us to bypass our conscious filters to explore our subconscious realms and inner selves. 

This might help you uncover hidden aspects of your personality; gain a deeper understanding of your thoughts, feelings, and motivations; explore the archetypal energies at play in your life; and find greater healing and liberation through shadow work. 

This type of journeying can also help us identify and rewire patterns that no longer support us and move through challenging emotions, such as shame or deep grief. But it’s not all shadows in your psyche — your hidden treasures are waiting to be uncovered, too.

Shamanic journeying is wonderful for helping us see ourselves and our gifts with fresh eyes, which can empower us to make better decisions and embody our true worth.

4. Shamanic journeying gives you an extra layer of protection. 

We can influence the world around us, and the world can influence us.

Sensitive souls are often susceptible to all sorts of foreign energy that doesn’t support our highest good — such as other people’s negative emotions or thought forms, curses and energetic cords, inherited patterns, and beings who are not benevolent.

Shamanic journeying helps us see what’s been hidden, so we can identify either where we might be leaking energy and giving away our power, or where outside influences might be affecting us in ways that aren’t helpful. 

If you want to learn more about this, I have a free class on this topic which you can check out here.

5. A strong journey practice will open and expand your intuition. 

Even though shamanic journeying helped me realize how naturally intuitive I already was, it also helped me access even stronger intuitive abilities.

Part of the beauty of journeying is that the more you do it, the more you will see results in your ordinary life — and this helps build confidence. Plus, you can actually receive personal guidance and healings to strengthen your intuition.

This might include lifestyle changes, supportive tools, or energetic healings — the important thing is that they will be beneficial for you. For example, some people receive clearer guidance if they cut out something like chocolate or caffeine, and others find it makes no difference at all! (Why deprive yourself if you don’t have to?)

In my own journeys, I’ve been given plant allies to work with that have helped open my third eye. I’ve received etheric acupuncture to allow my psychic abilities to grow stronger. And I’ve been assigned rituals to release fear around embracing my intuitive gifts. Spirit is endlessly creative!

6. Having a strong foundational practice in shamanic journeying is essential if you want to go on to more advanced shamanic practices.

This might include things like soul retrieval, extraction or removing foreign energy, curse unraveling, and psychopomp. These practices are powerful — and they are so important to learn if you’re drawn to healing others, your community, and our earth.

But in order to do them safely and effectively, you must  have strong relationships with your spirit guides and clear intuition that you know you can trust. Journeying is the foundation of preparing yourself for this deeper work. 

7. Our Earth needs your gifts now.

We are clearly at a transformative time in history. Things are changing rapidly, and many people feel insecure about their future personally, our future as a collective, and the future of our planet. 

Yet here you are. Alive and embodied. At this time. For a reason.

Shamanic journeying allows you to more deeply connect with the spirits of the Earth, so that you can partner with them to co-create a more magnificent future.

It brings you in touch more deeply and clearly with your own true nature, so that you can access and share your unique gifts, which are so needed at this time.

And it lets you know that you aren't alone in your efforts. You will encounter countless spiritual allies who are working right alongside us to bring more beauty and love into the physical realms.

As you deepen your own shamanic journey practice, you will continue to receive healing, insights, and guidance that help you navigate the often challenging times we live in so that you can fully express your medicine in the world.

This path is one of joy, and I hope that you'll continue to join me upon it.

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A Sunday Tea Ritual

A cup of tea can become a sacred ritual—all you need is intention.

 
 
 

A cup of tea can become a sacred ritual—all you need is intention.

I find Sunday evenings offer the perfect time to pause and reflect in sacred ritual before the new work week begins. Here’s a ritual for you to try this evening or anytime you want to quiet your mind and connect with spirit…

Begin by setting the intention to nourish your soul and calm your mind before the week begins.

Before you boil the water, place your hands over the hot water kettle and visualize calming nourishing energy flowing from your heart into the water.

Prepare the herbs and your cup with a grateful heart. Keep this feeling of gratitude—for these plants, for this moment in time, for your body, the aromas, the nourishment—flowing as you pour water over the tea.

As the tea steeps, you may like to light a candle and prepare your journal space.

Once ready, bring all your senses to your first few sips. Take your time and feel the warm cup in your hands. Inhale the aroma. Taste the nuances.

If this is all you have time or energy for, the ritual is complete. If you’d like to take this moment to journal, you might like to ask yourself:

How can I nourish myself in the coming week?

Where can I create more space in my schedule, perhaps by delegating or saying no?

What am I looking forward to? How can I make sure that I prioritize this?

May this ritual bring you peace and nourishment.

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    An exploration of the three-world model in shamanism…is it true?

    The "Three World Model" of the spirit realms primarily comes from the core shamanic work of the Foundation for Shamanic Studies and organizes non-ordinary reality into Upper, Middle, and Lower Worlds. But is this accurate? Here’s why this model isn’t as universal as you might have been told.

     
     
     

    This article is excerpted from my mini workshop how to take a shamanic journey. If you want to dive into the full course, be sure to click here to learn more :)

    The Three-World Model of Shamanism

    If you've taken any classes in the core shamanic traditions that we find so often in the West, chances are that you've been taught the “Three World Model” of shamanism. This model primarily comes from the shamanic work of the Foundation for Shamanic Studies, and it organizes non-ordinary reality into Upper, Middle, and Lower Worlds

    In this system, the Lower World usually appears a lot like our regular world does—but with even more beauty and awe-inspiring landscapes or features. It’s a divine, earthy realm filled with only benevolent beings and healing energy.

    The Upper World is a lot like the lower world, though it often appears more etheric, angelic, or celestial. Like the Lower World, the Upper World is only home to helpful, divine beings and energies.

    When you travel to the Upper and Lower Worlds, there is nothing to worry about or protect yourself from. These are purely spiritual and divine realms.

    The Middle World is a bit different. It’s the realm of our everyday reality—where we live here and now. By traveling the Middle World with an altered consciousness, we can explore more of the dimensions that exist right alongside us. 

    The Middle World is a little different from the Upper and Lower Worlds in that you’ll encounter both helpful, benevolent spirits…and not so helpful ones. Just like we meet all types of people in the ordinary reality Middle World, we meet all types of spirits in the non-ordinary reality Middle World. 

    This is why discernment—the ability to know whether or not a spirit is benevolent, or a trickster, or occasionally something more malefic—is key when traveling the Middle World realms. 

    When you take a shamanic journey in the core shamanism style, you enter into one of these worlds through a portal or entry point of some sort—and the direction you go matches the world you intend to travel to. You go down to go to the Lower World, up to the Upper World, and out to the Middle World.

    That’s the basic overview of the three world model—but there are a common few points of confusion that I want to look at before we move on. 

    First, it’s important to remember that each of these worlds is home to infinite realms—it’s not like the Lower World is just one place you head on down to—it contains a multitude of layers to explore. 

    Second, once you enter into non-ordinary reality, you can absolutely travel between realms. You’re never just stuck where you land. You can go from the Upper to the Lower to the Middle Worlds and back around again.

    Third, you can meet the same benevolent allies and spirit helpers in all the realms. For some reason, there are a lot of misconceptions in this area—I keep hearing people say that “you meet power animals in the Lower World” and “teachers or guides” in the Upper World. 

    This is silly when you think about it—our spirit helpers are never confined to one place. You can meet power animals, ancestors, angels, tree spirits, elements, deities, healers, teachers, and everyone in every realm, including the Middle Realm. So keep an open mind on your otherworld explorations

    A Wee Critique of the Three-World Model

    One of the reasons the three-world model became so popular in Western core shamanism is that it’s said to reflect the similarities of shamanic and indigenous cultures throughout the world…but this isn’t really accurate.

    When I first started teaching shamanic journeying many, many years ago, I used to follow the lead of my first teachers and use only the three-world model in my workshops. And, being the good and globally minded student I was, I tried to dultifully fit other systems into this model. 

    It was a stretch.

    Yes, the Celtic traditions have earth, sea, and sky realms…but those aren’t the full picture. Yes, the Norse tree of life has roots, a trunk, and branches…but there are nine worlds on the tree and it gets more complex from there. Yes, indigenous tribes throughout the world often have some sort of ancestor realm, earth realm, and celestial realm…but that is never even close to representing the actual complexitities of the wildly diverse cosmologies humankind has created.

    And over time, as I stepped more fully into my own spiritual knowing, I realized that the models we use for non-ordinary reality—what I also call the otherworlds or spirit realms—don’t actually matter. 

    The human mind likes a system. The realm of spirit is far more vast than our human minds can comprehend. So we make up systems that help us understand the ineffable. 

    All systems are facets of truth. No system is full Truth.

    My guess is that many of the early anthropologists who popularized the three-world model were overly, and probably subconsciously, influenced by their own Christian cultures.

    Think about it. The Earth and Heaven connections are pretty obvious right? We live here, on Earth and in the Middle World. Heaven above brings us to the Upper World and all the divine spiritual goodness found there.

    Hell, which clearly correlates with the Lower World, is where I think things get interesting—because in shamanic traditions, the Lower World is a place of immense power. In pre-Christian mythologies we hear tales of gods and goddesses descending into the underworld and emerging with more power than before (look at the legend of the Sumerian Goddess Inanna for a great example of this). 

    What better way to keep people separated from their true power than to keep them scared of the realm where so much power resides?

    I have to at least give kudos to these early anthropologists for recognizing that traveling into the Earth could be a portal to benevolent realms rather than hellscapes. Perhaps this is something you can explore in your own journeys ;) 

    Anyway, the point of all this is that if the three world model that you’ll commonly hear about in core shamanism doesn't quite resonate with you—no worries! 

    One of the things I love most is that shamanism is focused on your personal relationship with spirit. You get to do your own explorations and decide for yourself what resonates and what doesn’t. 

    For now though, take a moment to reflect for yourself: Are there certain models, cosmologies, and traditions you’re especially drawn to? What intuitively just makes sense for you?

    Our personal cosmologies are like divine poems. 

    We could never grasp the fullness and mystery of the otherworlds and spirit realms with our human minds.

    Your cosmology is a poetic reflection of a greater truth. A metaphorical and symbolic expression distilled from cosmic consciousness into a form your human mind can at least somewhat understand.

    There is no right or wrong here. Whatever arises on your journey is the perfect pathway for you. 

    And…this includes the three-world model.

    While I think it’s important to clarify that this model isn’t the universal shamanic cosmology it’s often said to be, I do think it offers a beautiful framework for beginning to explore the otherworlds…and we’ll be exploring the many benefits of this framework in the next classes.

    Your own spiritual landscapes will unfold over time, and exploring these realms is lifelong practice.

    This next bit isn’t from the course, but since I’ll be your guide, I thought it might be nice to know a bit more about where I’m coming from with regards to my personal cosmology:

    1. I think it’s helpful to distinguish our mundane, physical, ordinary reality from other spirit realms.

      I also like the term “consensus” reality, which I use to refer to what the general population experiences as “reality”.

    2. I look at the subtle, energetic layers of our existence as part of ordinary reality.

      The energies that underlie all of existence aren’t supernatural or special—they just are. Your meridians are as much a part of you as your bones. The aura of a tree is as present in our daily lives as its bark. Your consciousness is as impactful as your hands. We’re seeing more evidence of this all the time, so while I think it’s helpful to talk about physical and energetic dimensions separately, I view them both as part of ordinary life in my personal cosmology. 

    3. I see the otherworld as endlessly complex…

      Filled with heavenly realms that are purely divine, shadow realms with mysteries and hidden forces, realms where gods and goddesses or fae or even bigfoot might reside, elemental realms, mythical realms, star being realms…it’s endless. And I have no idea how they’re structured…because I doubt structure even exists in the spirit realms they way it does for us humans.

    4. I think the general idea behind the distinction between the Middle World versus the Upper and Lower Worlds is actually essential.

      Not locationally, but in that we must differentiate between places that are purely divine and benevolent from places that are more complex. We need to know if we’re entering into territory where we might encounter egos, tricksters, or darker energies.

    5. I believe that our relationship with the natural world is the key to unlocking access to all the myriad realms available to us.

      Once you start talking with trees, reading the stars, and meeting the nature spirits who cohabitate with you, a new world of spiritual exploration opens up.

    6. And I believe that my beliefs will keep changing.

      The Great Mystery is all I know for sure.

    What about you? Have you worked with the three-world model before? What are the core components of your personal cosmology? I’d love to hear in the comments.

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      This is the dawning of the Age of Aquarius…🎶

      Are cosmic peace and harmony really on their way? Or have we only had a sweet little preview of the hivemind to come? Also, can we talk about the 5th Dimension??? 🤯

       
       
       

      Are cosmic peace and harmony really on their way? Or have we only had a sweet little preview of the hivemind to come? Also, can we talk about the 5th Dimension??? 🤯

      In my mind, the Age of Aquarius will always be associated with the song from Hair: The American Tribal Love-Rock Musical.

      Yes, that’s the full name — an American tribal love-rock musical. Amazing.

      Though to be fair, I’m pretty sure it was mostly the 5th Dimension’s version playing in our house as I grew up.

      Yes, “Aquarius/Let the Sunshine In” was recorded by a band called the 5th Dimension.

      original cast of Hair & The 5th Dimension

      Is it any wonder I was 60s obsessed in my youth? ☮

      (I’m generation “Oregon Trail” for those who are wondering how far off I was born from my soul decade, hehe.)

      On January 20th, we’re entering a new phase in the age of Aquarius for reals. 

      This is a very big deal in the astro world…and I’ll share a bit more about the astrological reasons why in a minute.

      But it feels like a big deal to me because of the song.

      Decades ago, this song and the tribal love rock hippies who sang it promised me a better world! I mean, look at these lyrics:

      When the moon is in the Seventh House
      And Jupiter aligns with Mars
      Then peace will guide the planets
      And love will steer the stars
      This is the dawning of the age of Aquarius…
      Harmony and understanding
      Sympathy and trust abounding
      No more falsehoods or derisions
      Golden living dreams of visions
      Mystic crystal revelation
      And the mind's true liberation
      Aquarius…

      Peace, love, and spiritual awareness…I couldn’t wait for the Age of Aquarius to fix our broken world!

      Oh my sweet innocence. 🤦‍♀️

      Welcome to the Real Aquarian Vibes

      First thing is first: We don’t actually know when the official “Age of Aquarius” is.

      An astrological “age” is a massive amount of years — 2,160, based on the Earth’s processional rotations and equinox locations. And no one really agrees on when the transition between ages has or is or will happen.

      So let’s release ourselves from being in a specific “Age of Aquarius” and focus on the fact that astrologically, there is significantly more Aquarian energy in our collective than usual.

      Will Aquarius bring us cosmic peace and liberation as promised?

      To answer this question, it helps to look at what Aquarius is all about — the collective. 

      Aquarians serve the greater good — but not from some heartfelt love of humanity, and not by getting their own hands dirty.

      This is because Aquarians don’t live in the emotional or physical realms. Their world is mental, one of philosophical ideas and higher mind perspectives.

      They see the potential for Heaven on Earth and will pursue this vision from a more detached position…and they aren’t really bothered if your individual feelings are hurt along the way.

      My parter is an Aquarius Sun, and it shows. I love his ability to see the greatest possible solutions to our collective problems. And, I’ve heard his complaints about the “tragedy of the commons” more than once. 

      For those who need a review, the tragedy of the commons is an economic theory that refers to a state where individuals deplete public resources for their own benefit, which ultimately depletes everyone’s ability to benefit from those same resources. You can probably see just a *few* examples in our modern world…

      And this is the total opposite of Aquarian energy. They would never prioritize a single individual over the collective good. 

      With this in mind, let’s look at the first big shift into more Aquarian energy that happened back on December 21, 2020, when Jupiter and Saturn conjoined in Aquarius. 

      Yeah, I said it. 2020.

      The year we had a masterclass in the tragedy of the commons via toilet paper.

      men fighting over toilet paper

      this is what AI thinks it looked like

      This initiation into Aquarian energy showed us the potential for coming together in challenging times…and gave us some glimpses into the shadows around mob mentality.

      And it hinted that the transition from a society rooted in competition to one rooted in cooperation might be just a wee bit stormy, with just a wee bit of backlash...

      The next phase of Aquarian influence kicks off on January 20th, when Pluto forms a Cazimi — a super powerful perfect alignment with the Sun — in the very last degree of Capricorn before sauntering into Aquarius for the next 20ish years.

      This, as I mentioned earlier, is a very big deal.

      If one more person tells me Pluto is about “transformation”…🤮

      Pluto is what’s known as a “generational” planet — which means that it stays in a single zodiac for about 12 - 30 years, giving a whole generation a particular vibe. With Pluto moving into Aquarius, a new vibe begins.

      To understand what this means, let’s take a quick look at the areas of life ruled by Pluto, our “great transformer”.

      Here’s the thing. A lot of planets are transformational. What does this even mean?

      We need to know Pluto’s unique transformational flavor… 

      Spoiler: It’s rough.

      Pluto is a shadowy planet. It rules the things we try to keep hidden — violence, addiction, coercion. It heralds transformation so great it can feel like a crisis. Death and rebirth. Power and surrender. These are the themes of Pluto.

      Pluto is also a planet of will — not our individual will, but our collective will. It’s one thing to make up your mind and work towards what you want. It’s another world to swim upstream against a collective that wants something else entirely. My guess? This is going to be a time of re-calibrating how your will and the collective will can best co-exist.

      And, Pluto is not a fan of sweeping our shadows under the rug. It wants to pull them out and eradicate them for the greater good. I like how Astrobutterfly puts this:

      Pluto’s role is to keep the engine of the universe going by eliminating what can no longer sustain life. If something is rotten, Pluto will eliminate it to leave space for healthy growth.

      Knowing what’s rotten is a good thing. If your tooth rots, you go to the dentist and fix the problem…and save your other teeth. If you want your tree to grow healthy, you trim the dead branches.

      When Pluto brings transformation, it comes in the form of the Tower card of the Tarot. Things topple. There’s usually some kind of shock involved, a shock that shakes us out of our slumber and wakes us up to a new way of understanding the world and our place within it.

      As a reminder here — Pluto is always somewhere. Some area of life is always undergoing collective transformation in pretty disruptive ways. This is part of how we evolve and grow.

       

      looks fun!

       

      Pluto, meet Aquarius. I think you’ll have fun together 😵‍💫

      How interesting that Aquarius, the hivemind sign of the zodiac, is going to be home to Pluto, the planet of really challenging collective transformations. 

      I’m thinking this era might not be the love and light land I’d hoped for…

      Aquarius and Pluto are both focused on the collective good, equality, and innovation in service of all. This is a vibe that we could definitely use more of, and one that goes quite well with our Age of Aquarius theme song. 

      But Pluto just won’t nicely walk us over into lala land. Pluto strikes the Tower down, forcing us to cultivate resilience as we grow into the people who can build our Aquarian society. 

      Pluto in Aquarius heralds a return of power to the people. Expect to see tyrannies of all types topple and crumble like the Tower itself — from oppressive political regimes to spiritual cults and cult-like corporations.

      Yes, power to the people.

      But have you seen people lately? 😬

      The mob mentality and cancel culture we’ve witnessed in the last couple of years is likely a sweet little preview of what’s to come. 

      Whereas in the past, radicalization was a major concern…I’m a bit more worried about righteousization (totally made that word up) in the coming era.

      Righteous anger. Righteous rage. Righteous power. Righteous spirituality.

      All under the guise of serving the collective good. 

      Righteousness is group-think meets nervous system activation. 

      You believe you have the power of the collective behind you, your adrenaline kicks in, and you become part of the earthquake that shakes the Tower.

      That’s not my vibe. I’m all for radical change, but it’s going to be rough enough without righteous zombies adding to the chaos. 

      This is your opportunity to become a vessel of integrity and clarity in an era of change and confusion. 

      Learn how to distinguish your intuition from an adrenaline rush. Cultivate skills that help you regulate your nervous system. Stay open to change and align yourself with service. Keep checking in with your heartfelt knowing of what is truth and what is group-think.

      We are co-creating a new world together, and you are here to play an invaluable role. One that is unique to you and needed by us all.

      A few more winks at the future 👽

      And to wrap up, here are a few more areas we can expect to see Pluto in Aquarius impact…

      Aquarius rules technology, communication, markets, and the circulation of resources. It takes an interest in the policies and infrastructure that affect society as a whole. It’s the group energy in life — executive boards, congress, friend groups, communities. And it rules the skies. 

      You can probably guess from here — changes to our economy, how information is shared, where power falls in our political systems, and whatever is going to happen with AI, to name a few. 

      Oh, and UFOs. Definitely expect more on aliens and UFOs. 😉

      For those who want more, here are a few resources to keep exploring this upcoming Pluto-Aquarius party:

      • Adam Elenbaas of Nightlight Astrology goes into a pretty thorough deep dive here and provides a fun overview of how this will affect each sign here.

      • Astrobutterfly has a great, easy-to-read article on the whole thing here.

      • Rebecca Gordon adds some lovely nuance here.

      • Chris Brennan has a couple of 2024 overview episodes of The Astrology Podcast, which you can explore here.

      • And I always love a good Chani article.

      What do you think about all this incoming astro weather? I’d love to hear what you think we can expect in the comments. 

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        Just Say No to Bro Goals

        Learn to work with the moon for intuitive healing

         
         
         

        Just say no to bro goals.

        Unless that works for you. But I'm taking a more feminine approach this year.

        The cult of self help has a particular flavor in the podcast realms…

        A lot of the habit-tracking and goal-setting info that makes it's way around the bro-podcast circuits just doesn't work for me.

        I like the idea of 5am wake ups, cold showers every day, and pushing through discomfort to see change...

        But ultimately, so much of the advice out there separates me further from body and intuition.

        I'm cyclical. My energy levels are not the same throughout the month, or the seasons. I need the freedom to create space for my authentic needs without having my mind crowded over with "shoulds".

        A lot of women suffer from the idea that we can hack our way to health and force ourselves into productivity…

        Which brings me to an observation during a recent meeting of my weekly astrology class.

        It’s an advanced class with just a small group of pretty badass women. We were practicing reading each others' charts, and a theme emerged…

        We had all burned out. Hard. Enough so that half of us had quit our full time jobs for the sake of our health.

        As above, so below.

        I think a lot of us were drawn to astrology as part of our recovery.

        There’s something incredibly comforting about seeing our human experiences reflected in the cosmos.

        I have the fixed star Sirius conjunct my moon. Sothis to the Egyptians, many refer to Sirius as our spiritual sun—a portal to divine wisdom. Makes sense for me as my entire life has been a deep dive into mystical realms.

        But Sirius is also known as “the Icarus star”. It blesses us with great inspiration and success…yet this success is almost always followed with a painful crash and burn.

        Fortunately, rather than deciding my fate, this cosmic knowledge reminds me that I need to be extra intentional with my self care and energy levels.

        AND it helps to not pretend that I will magically create consistent equilibrium in my life. My authentic blueprint inherently has cycles of success and burnout.

        The question becomes, how can I work with these cycles instead of pretending they don’t exist?

        For me, this means knowing that I will need periods of deep rest between creative projects. If I’m launching a new perfume or writing a hefty Substack series for example, I’ll need to put a few days of self care and rest into my calendar.

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          How Mama Moon Saved Me

          To heal from the extreme burnout I experienced (by extreme I mean total adrenal fatigue, no cortisol spike at all, inability to digest food, horrible skin, and crying all the time and unable to get out of bed), I knew I needed to start taking more exquisite care of myself than I ever had before.

          This meant resisting the pull of mainstream messages about endless productivity and growth and sinking into a slower, earthier way of being.

          But here's the challenge: Committing to exquisite self care is one thing—actually doing the self care is another.

          Because being totally depleted makes it really, really hard to take care of yourself in even the most basic ways.

          As much as bro-hacking doesn’t work for me, I do need some accountability to keep myself healthy. I will absolutely slip into later and later bedtimes, skip vitamins, and put off meditating until "tomorrow" if left completely to my own devices.

          I needed help. So I turned to the moon.

          In Hellenistic astrology, the Moon is considered to be the closest ally of our human experience. Her cycles directly affect our physical bodies and energy levels.

          This is why consciously tuning into the Moon’s cycles can have a profound impact on our well-being.

          So I made myself my own cyclical, nature-based habit tracking calendars.

          These trackers are based on our monthly calendar system because that's the time my mind lives in. But they incorporate moon cycles because that's the time my body lives in.

          Rather than rigid to-do lists that reinforce a mind-over-matter mentality, these lunar calendars help me track and plan according to my authentic cycles.

          I’ve used these sheets to become more aware of my own energy levels and natural tendencies with the cycles of the moon, and I was better able to cultivate more sustainable habits on my journey back to health as a result.

          I still plan and track goals like taking cold showers in the morning, getting sunlight on my skin within the first 10 minutes of waking, morning movement, pranayama, yoga, vitamins, etc.

          But I also plan on skipping cold showers during the first days of my cycle. I put in the best days for certain foods or supplements. I mark the weeks when I'll likely have the most energy to go on long hikes, as well as the weeks when I know I'll need more rest and a hot bath.

          I used these sheets all last year and love them.

          So I packaged them up into a lovely little set that I can share! This set includes:

          🌝 two types of tracking sheets — one for intentions/planning and one for tracking/measuring
          🌝 a 20-page moon-syncing guidebook
          🌝 a moon cycle wall calendar for fun

          You can get yours here.

          Using these sheets helped me:

          🌚 cultivate more sustainable and nourishing habits, from drinking more water to recommitting to my pranayama practice
          🌑 plan ahead for different types of self-care activities (saltwater baths at the new moon, socializing at the waxing moon, long solo hikes near the full moon)
          🌒 align my schedule with my natural energy levels—sometimes I just won't be as naturally productive and that's ok
          🌓 use different herbal tea blends and eat different foods as my body's needs change throughout each month
          🌔 become so in touch with my body that I can more easily spot the first signs that I'm heading towards illness or imbalance, which helps course correct before its too late
          🌕 get way happier!!!

          And…here are pictures!

          Here’s the link to get your moon magic:

          2024 Moon Magic Guide

          May your new year be filled with a balance of productivity and rest that perfectly meets your uniqueness. Many blessings!


           
           

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          Serket & Scorpions

          The Egyptian goddess Serket, also known as Selket or Selqet, is a goddess of protection, the afterlife, medicine, and magic. Like the scorpion, she can heal…and she can destroy. 

           
           
           

          The scorpion goddess came to me during Scorpio season.

          The Egyptian goddess Serket, also known as Selket or Selqet, is not as well-known as many of her counterparts these days — though this certainly wasn’t always the case. 

          Serket is a very ancient goddess and was much more popular in earlier Egyptian dynasties — a patron of pharaohs, priests, and physicians; a central character in key myths; and depicted on royal tombs and protective amulets throughout the land. Overtime, many of this goddess’s attributes were absorbed by Auset (Isis), which is partially why we don’t hear about her quite so often today.

          But we’re at a time when reclaiming Serket’s feminine, transformative, and powerful scorpion medicine is greatly needed. 

          It’s time to shed a bit of light on this dark goddess.

          Meet Serket: Protection, Afterlife, Magic, and Medicine

          The Egyptian goddess Serket is a scorpion deity of protection, the afterlife, medicine, and magic. Like the scorpion, she can heal…and she can destroy. 

          Call on Serket for:

          • Protection — from outside influences, for upcoming medical procedures, from lower vibration energies, for children

          • Shadow Work — face and transmute inner toxins and poisons

          • Sexual Energy & Fertility — awaken the creative forces of nature within your own being

          • Transmutation — a powerful ally for working with spiritual healing techniques

          • Magic — she’s one of the oldest and most powerful deities of early Egypt, a patron of many priests and magical practices

          • Healing — access the right dose of the right medicine at the right time

          • Breathwork — for transmutation, healing, ascension, and increasing life force energy

           
           

          As is true for many Egyptian deities, Serket appears in both human and animal form. As a human goddess, she is most often depicted with a scorpion raising its tail upon her head. In her animal appearance, she is the scorpion herself.

          The scorpion was both feared and revered in ancient Egypt (much like many people’s love-hate relationship with the Scorpio of our zodiac). This is because scorpions (and Scorpios for that matter!) are intensely powerful — and this power can be used to harm or heal. 

          scorpion medicine

          A small but mighty beast that can take down a creature many times its size with its sting, the scorpion can deliver great pain. Yet its presence in your favor offers great protection. The same is true of Serket. 

          Protection & Healing with the Goddess of Scorpions

          As a primary protective and funerary goddess in ancient Egypt, Serket stood alongside Isis, Nepthys, and Neith to guard the deceased on their journey through the afterlife. In the Pyramid Texts, she joins these goddesses to protect the deceased king, who speaks:

          “My mother is Isis, my nurse is Nepthys…Neith is behind me, and Serket is before me.” (PT 1375).1

          Serket’s presence in front of the king as he traverses the afterlife realms signifies the power of her guardianship.

          Just as Serket protects us from the external demons of the afterlife, she offers her protection as we face the internal demons of our psyche.

          Think about the energy of Scorpio. This Zodia can sting us at the deepest levels, crawling into the crevasses of our soul to ignite our emotional wounds with its fiery venom. 

          If you’ve been around here awhile, you know my thoughts on this: The dose makes the poison. 

          The venom that can kill can also heal. Scorpio helps us illuminate and transform our hidden shadows so they no longer rule us from their subconscious thrones. 

          And here, we see Serket as the keeper of magic and healing.

          It is only through the act of facing a poison that we can transmute it. And it is through this transmutation that we can heal.

          She Who Causes the Throat to Breathe

          Serket’s full Egyptian name is Serket hetyt, meaning “she who causes the throat to breathe” — and if she can cause the throat to breathe, she can stop it from breathing, too. 

          This makes Serket a powerful ally for working with the breath to transmute our poisons, the negative energies or thoughts that keep us from actualizing our true potential.

          This is energetic healing — not the deep dive into shadow work that Scorpio can offer, but a clearing and refreshing of our energy on the most foundational level. Serket reminds us of what can shift simply from working on energetic levels, without all the stories our Western minds love to process.

          Some believe that this constricting of the breath is where much of Serket’s association with scorpions comes from: Egypt is home to some of the world’s deadliest scorpions, who can cause anaphylactic reactions with their venom…in other words, they can stop the breath. 

          Yet there’s another powerful association this goddess has with scorpions…the water scorpion. 

          Nepa cinerea, image of water scorpion

          Nepa cinerea, image of water scorpion

          Is the water scorprion the true origin of Serket & Scorpio?

          The water scorpion isn’t in the same species as the scorpion we all know and love, but it looks similar, and its bite can pack a punch. Plus, the water scorpion expands and contracts as it breathes underwater, once again pointing to the breath as a key significator of Serket’s gifts. 

          Unlike the potentially fatal outcome of encountering a scorpion on the land, water scorpions are not deadly — which may be a better fit with Serket as a benevolent goddess.

          The water scorpion also bring much of what we know about Scorpio full circle — and yes, the ancient Egyptians absolutely recognized this astrological constellation and season. 

          The Zodia Scorpio, confuses many people because it’s a water sign symbolized by what we tend to think of as fiery, desert-dwelling animal. 

          Yet what if Scorpio was always associated with the water scorpion? Water represents our emotional nature, the feminine darkness, and the mystery of the void. This is where Scorpio’s gifts lie — we travel into the darkest regions of our shadows to face our inner poisons, transmuting and transforming them again and again. 

          Scorpio is the season for finding and facing our subconscious drives, and Serket is the goddess who can help us do so.  

          Isis surrounded by the Seven Scorpions

          Isis surrounded by the Seven Scorpions

          Serket and the Seven Scorpions

          One of the most well-known stories of Egyptian mythology is that of Osiris’s resurrection: In short, his brother Seth chops him up and Isis puts him back together, and then they conceive the great god Horus.

          What’s not so well-known, however, is the role Serket plays in this tale. Though there are many different versions, the general theme is that Serket sends Seven Scorpions to protect Isis and her divine child while they search for the peices of Osiris’s corpse. 

          In one version, Serket herself guards baby Horus while Isis travels to a village in search of food. Serket’s seven scorpions surround Isis, offering her protection: Petet, Tjetet, and Matet go before her; Mesetet and Mesetetef flank her sides, and Tefen and Befen, the fiercest scorpions, guard her from behind. 

          Isis first approaches the door of a noble family, yet when the woman who answers sees the scorpions, she turns Isis away in fear. (But no worries — a kind peasant woman sees this happen and takes Isis in instead.)

          Serket’s scorpions are not the forgive-and-forget type (and neither is Scorpio!). Seeking vengeance for this slight, they send all of their collective poison into Tefen for a most powerful sting, and he kills the baby boy of the noble family. 

          Of course, Serket and Isis are like…um, no. We don’t kill innocent babies. So, Serket — because she has power over the poisons she wields — heals the boy and brings him back to life.

          Our greatest challenges and most potent pains are often where we hold the greatest potential for mastery.

          Serket neither fears the scorpion’s venom nor lets it consume her. She embraces that this poison is part of her unique medicine, and uses her magic and power for healing and protection. 

          What are the greatest internal challenges you’ve been struggling with? What are the thoughts that poison your well-being?

          Serket teaches us that within each poison is the medicine you need most. 

          If you’d like to explore the hidden gifts and healing available within your shadow, parts work can be especially effective — take a look at the process here.

           
          Serket’s iconography

          Serket’s iconography

           

          Ecstatic Healing with Scorpion Medicine

          The following meditation was given to me by Serket. It’s energetic. It’s ecstatic. And surprisingly sexual…though I suppose this shouldn’t have surprised me since sexuality is part of Scorpio and scorpion’s medicine. 

          Serket doesn’t want us to overlay this meditation with mental stories. We’re not pulling up toxic beliefs, analyzing our thoughts, or focusing on our pain here. 

          Instead, we’re somatically experiencing the ecstasy of receiving the perfectly right dose of “poison”. 

          This is an energetic healing. Allow yourself to feel the shift in your being. And don’t worry about what anything “means”. 

          Before you begin, set sacred space. Affirm that you are only open to working the most benevolent form of Serket and scorpion medicine.

          Take a deep breath and come into your body. Allow your mind to travel to an ancient Egyptian desert. 

          The goddess Serket meets you here. She is tall and radiant. She carries an ankh, symbolizing life, in one hand and a was sceptre, symbolizing power, in the other. 

          Seven scorpions emerge from behind the goddess and surround you. 

          Notice your response to these scorpions. Some fear, or excitement even, is natural. You might begin to feel a tingling sensation. 

          When you are ready, invite these beings to share their medicine with you. You may like to check in with the goddess first, asking her if now is the appropriate time for this healing. 

          One by one, they come with their stings.

          Feel the effects of each sting within your body. Pleasure and pain. Exhilaration and release. Sexual energy fills your being — not with the need to procreate, but with the innate life force healing it connects you with.

          Notice any resistance that arises. This type of intense pleasurable energy can feel frightening, like it might overwhelm your system or cause pain. This is natural, but if it begins to feel like too much, ask the goddess to titrate the effects on your system.

          Sit with the scorpions’ medicine as long as it feels good. Remember not to analyze your experience. Just feel it. 

          When you sense the healing is complete, offer your thanks to Serket and her seven scorpions. Bring your awareness back into the present and return completely to your body in the here and now. 

          I would love to hear about your experience if you do this meditation — drop me a comment!

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          1 Wilkinson, R.H. The Complete Gods and Goddesses of Ancient Egypt. Thames & Hudson, 2003.


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            Healing with the Goddess Ma'at

            The Egyptian Goddess Ma’at holds all cosmic truths, law, harmony, and balance in her wings. She weighs our hearts against a feather at death… or does she? Discover the deeper truths to Ma’at’s mysteries.

             
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            The Egyptian Book of the Dead — Entering the Afterlife

            It is said that when you die, the Egyptian Goddess Ma’at awaits at the halls of the afterlife. Here, she weighs your heart against a feather to see if you have passage to paradise…or if you’ll be devoured by a monstrous god.

            A feather-light heart is the secret to passing through the halls and judgements of the underworld.

            In Egyptian mysticism, the neteru, the gods and goddesses, are both deities and higher truths.

            Ma'at represents justice, truth, law, and balance. She is the cosmic principle that maintains order on earth, that prevents chaos from disrupting natural order. 

            As with many religions’ take on the afterlife, it appears that our lives are judged by some outside source. Grand, powerful beings decide if our sins are too great to enter heaven, or ascend to paradise, or get off the wheel of samsara. 

            This is a superficial understanding of a much more nuanced and loving truth…

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              Judgement Day or Divine Neutrality? A Channeled Message from Ma’at

              In my personal spiritual practice, I often channel divine beings. The art of channeling is a full-sensory experience for me, as my body becomes attuned to their wisdom and I can feel the cosmic truths shared by the divine. 

              This weekend, I had the opportunity to channel Ma’at during a shamanic teacher’s reunion with Sandra Ingerman. The love I felt in the presence of this goddess is not something I can describe in human words, and she shared a beautiful perspective on our afterlife judgements — one that we can begin to implement during our lifetimes.

              Ma’at shared that in the afterlife, it is not so much that our hearts are weighed on a scale to determine our fates…we are the scales.

              We have the power to to shift, release, and transmute any heaviness that does not serve our spiritual ascension.

              And even if we choose to do so through being devoured, our feather-light souls emerge renewed.

              Simply being in the presence of this goddess is healing, as she witnesses our souls from the perspective of divine neutrality. 

              Contrary to all the religious tales around judgment day, divine neutrality is the complete absence of any judgment. It’s the ultimate non-dual, unity consciousness state of being. And it’s the most purely and powerfully loving energy I’ve ever experienced. 

              You may have heard me use this term before — it’s the exact same feeling I get in the presence of Archangel Azrael, another deity who helps souls along their journeys in the afterlife. 

              It’s no coincidence that the beings who assist our souls in death embody the spirit of divine neutrality: Judgment as we know it is a uniquely human quality. When we die, we realize the perfection and eternal love of all that is.

              Perhaps most importantly, Ma’at shared that we do not need to wait for the time of our passing to transmute the heaviness carried in our hearts.

              Her divine love is always available to us, always ready to help us remember our own transformative power. 

              A Meditation for Healing with the Goddess Ma’at

              Ma’at shared a visualization that we can do anytime to transmute heaviness and embody a feather-light heart:

              Imagine yourself merging with a set of giant, golden scales. On one side is your heart, the other a feather. 

              Notice the initial balance you experience. How heavy is your heart? What burdens does it carry? 

              See the darkness and heaviness carried in your heart begin to flow into the feather. As this magical feather absorbs your pain, the energy is immediately transmuted into lightness so the feather never gets heavy.

              Continue witnessing and feeling this process until your heart appears as light as the feather. 

              When complete, feel yourself separate and unmerge with the scales, offering Ma’at gratitude for the healing. 

              Feel the lightness in your being and see yourself filled with a golden-white light. Allow yourself to rest in this glow before returning to everyday life. 

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              It’s Not Depression. It’s Exhaustion. ☥ Why Creative Women Are Burning Out and the Soul-Level Need for Deep Rest

              What does it mean when you don't want to do anything? When nothing sounds fun, you've lost touch with previous passions, and the things that used to bring you joy no longer have the same effect?

              Modern psychology would tell us that these are clear signs of depression. And sometimes, that is what's happening.

              But this isn’t always the case. I've found that there's often something a bit more insidious under the surface when creators lose the desire to create

               
               
               

              What does it mean when you don't want to do anything? When nothing sounds fun, you've lost touch with previous passions, and the things that used to bring you joy no longer have the same effect?

              Modern psychology would tell us that these are clear signs of depression. And sometimes, that is what's happening.

              But this isn’t always the case. I've found that there's often something a bit more insidious under the surface when creators lose the desire to create

              Many of the women I know are infinite creators. Their inner wells of inspiration seem to have no end to their depths.

              These women remodel houses. Build healing practices. Tend potent relationships. Raise little ones. Nurture new life in the land. Paint magnificent works of art. Grow businesses of all types. Launch podcasts. Write books. Envision social ventures. Make a difference in their communities.

              (And yes, I definitely count myself in this crowd.)

              Their work is so beautiful and needed in our world.

              But there is a shadow side to the drive to create. To manifest visions in physical form. To always be growing.

              Patriarchal Systems Are Designed to Harm Creative Women

              The influence of the linear, growth-driven, and let's face it—patriarchally influenced—culture we all live within sneaks into every part of our unconsciousness.

              It slips in through social media and tells you that everyone else is doing more and doing it better.

              It's a podcast guest, reminding you that you should always be biohacking your body, healing your trauma, and manifesting your dream life.

              It makes sure you know that if you aren't always climbing the ladder of career—including if you work for yourself—you’ll end up desolate and broke.

              It subtly lets you know that if, as a woman, you’re not focused on creating or raising new life (having children) on top of all this, you’re not really living up to your full potential.

              The amazingly creative, power-house women in my life know that nature and life are cyclical, that endless growth is unsustainable, and that we need space to tend our wellness...

              And yet resting or *not doing anything* is soooo uncomfortable for all of them (er, us...I've faced my own struggles here for sure).

              But if we don't take the time to celebrate and integrate in the creative cycles of life, we will inevitably crash and burn.

              I was talking with a good girlfriend recently, and I could see this starting to emerge in her.

              "Some days I'm fine, and I get a ton done and feel in the flow," she said, "But more and more, I just don't want to do anything."

              I know this feeling well.

              As an infinite creator myself, I finally burned out so hard that I became non-functional. I could tell I was on the verge of chronic illness unless something changed. 

              At this time, the idea of doing anything was too hard. And it freaked me out: If I didn't want to do anything, what was I going to do?? What is life without creation? How would I make money? Contribute to the world? Do all the things that "matter"?

              When I was in the throws of panic on this topic, my wise little sister came to the rescue with key advice from Martha Beck, who shared (I’m paraphrasing here):

              If you don't want to do anything, if you've lost touch with your passion, if nothing matters or motivates or delights you...

              You Need Rest.

              Just Rest.

              Rest.

              Can you feel your body relaxing as you read this? 

              It's actually ok not to feel purpose-driven, connected with your "why" and following your "hell-yes's" for awhile.

              It's okay to step into the alchemical cauldron of rest.

              When I relayed this to my girlfriend, she started to cry. Not tears of sadness, but tears that signify a Truth with capital T coming home.

              We Must Allow Space for Our Grief

              In the months leading up to our deep exhaustion, both my friend and I had been through life-changing transitions. And both of us had experienced significant losses with deep grief.

              Just about everyone I know has gone through something similar in the past two years.

              It seems that, as a culture, we've forgotten that we need time and space to process and integrate the major changes and losses we've experienced. When this lack of tending meets the creator's endless quest, burnout and exhaustion are inevitable.

              Check in with your body and heart. What happens when you ask yourself if you just need rest?

              If you feel your nervous system relax and your eyes well up with tears, you need rest.

              If you feel a constriction and sense of panic, you also need rest.

              Do you remember how? Do you even know how to rest anymore?

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                How to Rest — Even When It Feels Impossible

                In my experience, it can take days or more likely months for us to actually remember how to rest, with quite a few ups and downs along the way.

                Be gentle with yourself during the process. Know that it will be uncomfortable at times, and that it will absolutely become more natural as you practice.

                To whatever degrees are possible for you (and I'm well aware that rest seems like an unobtainable luxury to so many women), here are just a few ideas that helped me when I was so exhausted I was becoming non-functional:

                • Let go of your to-do list. The more you ignore it, the more you might realize that life won't actually fall apart if you don't get everything done each day.

                • Stare out a window for over an hour. No devices, reading, listening, writing, or even trying to meditate. Just space out and stare. It's wild how healthy this actually is.

                • Take time off with no plans for how to fill your days. Stay home — or leave if that's easier. Either way, try to spend your days responding to what you need in each moment. This is easier said than done...just know, you will likely binge Netflix or read a ridiculously cheesy novel. And you will end up with dirty floors and a sink full of dishes. It's okay (at least for now).

                • Smell good things. Aroma seeps past our conscious minds deep into the brain where it can soothe our tender souls from the inside out.

                • Drink water. Lots of water.

                • Know that all of the above are easier said than done. Resistance is inevitable. Life is full of demands on your time and energy. Be kind to yourself and do what you can.

                As you start to heal, you might find that you have the energy to engage in a few, simple self-care practices. These can feel like too much if you've really hit a deep level of exhaustion or grief, so there's no rushing into them. But when you feel ready, try incorporating a few of these practices into your days:

                • Meditate. And don't make it too serious or intense. Find some nice guided imagery, or set a timer for 10 minutes. Or lay on the floor and do a body scan. This should feel good—not like a chore.

                • Move your body. Personally, I love yoga for this. I go at my own pace, feel my body, and know my energy is beginning to move more too. If yoga works for you, great. If not, the important thing is that the movement helps you enjoy being in your body. Dance. Walk. Do jumping jacks. Whatever feels good.

                • Incorporate herbal allies. Teas or tinctures that soothe your nervous system can help the healing process.

                • Treat your senses. Eat nourishing, delicious food. Keep up the aromas. Take a bath and massage oil into your muscles. Decorate your body with jewelry, clothes you love, fake tattoos even...especially if you've lost touch with feeling good in your skin (which often accompanies burnout).

                • Get out into nature. Even a backyard or park will do. Or a walk around a tree-lined neighborhood. The spirits of nature are beautiful allies on our healing journeys.

                While I found my own journey to deeper rest uncomfortable and challenging at times, I also found it extremely liberating. I began to see the boxes I'd put myself in—yes, the ones I'd unintentionally constructed myself — with greater clarity.

                My cocoon of rest has morphed — I've gone from teetering on the edge of autoimmune conditions to restoring health and learning how to enjoy life again bit by bit. And I'm still very much in the cocoon.

                I don't know who I will be when I emerge. And everyday I remind myself to surrender to the process.

                Because rest isn't just restorative. It's transformational. It's a cauldron we must enter to undergo an alchemical transformation into a new way of being.

                Who will we become if we allow the cocoon of rest to alchemize our transformation?

                I don't know. But I do know, with my whole heart, that those who surrender to the process will become even more impactful light beings ushering in a new era on our planet. (Yup—made a leap there...more on the new era I'm sensing to come!)

                Does this resonate? Let me know in the comments 🙂

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                How to Be Spiritually Sovereign: Making Magic with the Virgin Goddesses

                When it comes to the gods and goddesses of Greek mythology, everyone is sleeping with everyone. Almost. Three goddesses remain untouched—these are the virgin goddesses. But what does virginity really mean? Sovereignty. It means knowing who you really are and being so full within that all of your being is effortlessly free. See how you can embody the qualities of these goddess in your own life…

                 
                 
                 

                When it comes to the gods and goddesses of Greek mythology, everyone is sleeping with everyone. Almost. 

                Three goddesses remain untouched by the wanted—or often unwanted—passions of men. As Jean Shinoda Bolen shares in her iconic book, Goddesses in Everywoman, these are the virgin goddesses…

                Meet Artemis, Athena, and Hestia. 

                Of all the Greek goddesses, these were the only ones who never married, were never overpowered, and were never humiliated by male deities or men. 

                Interestingly, as Bolen notes, only these three—among gods, goddesses, and humans alike—were the only beings never susceptible to Aphrodite’s seductive power. 

                Why? How could these virgin goddesses maintain their independence? Because they are each whole in and of themselves. These aren’t just the virgin goddesses—these are sovereign goddesses. 

                Virginity carries many connotations in our modern vernacular—though we will still apply it to some goods such as virgin oil, it’s most often associated with sex. 

                When it comes to archetypal perspectives on virginity, the definition expands. The virgin archetype is one of purity—such as the spiritual clarity and pure heart of Mother Mary. And the virgin archetype is one of originality—meaning, “in original form”.

                Your original form. Before you were touched, influenced, and hurt by all that we experience in our lives. 

                The virgin archetype within us is our true self—that part of us that is whole, divine, and always spiritually free and fulfilled. 

                As we move through life, most of us lose touch with our true selves to varying degrees. 

                We experience trauma and soul loss. We’re enculturated into the rules and norms of societal and family systems that don’t always meet the needs of our wild spirits. And we’re subtly—and not so subtly—manipulated by forces and groups that thrive when we give our power away. 

                This is normal. And it’s within the awesome gifts of the virgin goddesses to help. 

                The virgin goddesses can model sovereignty, freedom, and wholeness for us.

                And to be clear—this doesn’t mean we aren’t in relationship! Rather, it means that we are complete within ourselves, which allows us to enter into relationship with greater clarity, healthier boundaries, and more secure attachment styles. 

                Each of the Greek virgin goddesses offers us a slightly different perspective on spiritual and personal sovereignty…

                And, as a note—I especially love that these goddesses show us that the following qualities are all inherently feminine. These aren’t goddesses embodying masculine qualities within feminine form. These are feminine goddesses reflecting the divine feminine back to us—leadership, wisdom, contemplation, independence, focus, and achieving goals are innately feminine traits.

                 

                Gustav Klimt's Pallas Athena

                 

                Athena

                Athena (Minerva), the goddess of wisdom and crafts, helps us connect our heads and our hearts in a way that illuminates Truth with a capital T. Just a few of her gifts we can explore:

                • Athena helps us see beyond the surface and uncover the deeper mysteries and knowledge available to us. 

                • Able to hold both strategic, practical insights alongside creative energy that is self-generated and refined, Athena is an invaluable ally for bringing impeccable creations to life.

                • As a regal goddess who thrives in culture, Athena models true leadership, leadership we can apply to our own lives as well as draw from in service of others. 

                 

                The Goddess of the Hearth - Hestia by Roy the Art

                 

                Hestia

                Hestia (Vesta), the goddess of the hearth, is said to be felt within the heart of every home, turning our everyday world into a sacred space. A few of the gifts we can explore:

                • Hestia’s attention to the sacredness of our homes tunes us into the sensual nature of daily living, making simple household “chores” acts of pleasure and devotion.

                • The sacredness of our homes is extended to our bodies as well. Hestia reminds us that we are whole and sacred, and helps us treat our body temples with reverence and gratitude.

                • Hestia’s inward focus aligns with great mysticism. In meditating with this goddess, we touch into our oneness with the divine, receive deep spiritual insights, and cultivate the stillness from all movement arises.

                 

                Athena by Thomas Dodd

                 

                Artemis

                Artemis (Diana), the goddess of the moon and the hunt, brings us the gifts of rewilding. A few of her gifts to explore:

                • More at home in nature’s wilds than any society, Artemis is especially skilled at helping us deprogram from cultural conditioning and remember our own wild natures

                • A fierce defender of women, Artemis is one of the few goddesses who show no jealousy toward other women, helping us both embrace the power of sisterhood and embody independence.

                • As a skilled archer and goddess of the hunt, Artemis helps us pursue what really matters without fear of competition, judgment, or failure. She knows she can accomplish whatever she sets out to achieve, and helps us do the same. 

                This is truly the tip of the iceberg when it comes to these goddesses, and I’ll be sharing more in-depth explorations of their magic and medicine in future articles. 

                For now though, here’s a practice to give you a taste of what working with these powerful women can offer…

                Decide on which goddess you would like to connect with from the above list, and then follow the instructions below.

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                  Goddess Meditation for Sovereignty

                  1. Get into a comfortable position. Bring your awareness to the present moment. Feel your body, sense the space you’re held in, and drop anything that’s not needed at this time. Use your breath to call in awareness and let go of distraction.

                  2. Visualize yourself in a beautiful, protective orb of light. Affirm that only love and compassionate beings are invited and able to be with you in this practice. 

                  3. Use your intention to call forth the goddess you wish to connect with, making sure to specify that you wish to meet with her most compassionate form. You might like to speak her name aloud. Repeat her name as a mantra until you feel her presence. 

                  4. As for an attunement to this goddess. She will take the lead so simply receive. You may get images, have a knowing of what’s happening, or simply feel vibrational shifts. Some people will even get a hint of an aroma as confirmation of the goddess’s presence. 

                  5. When the attunement feels complete, ask the goddess, “How can I embody greater sovereignty in my daily life?”

                  6. Allow the answers to arise in your consciousness. Remember, spirit speaks in symbols and feelings. If you don’t feel clear on the answer right away, it’s likely that more meaning will unfold in the coming days. Stay open to synchronicities and insights related to your question. 

                  7. Give thanks. Offer gratitude for the goddess and blessings and wisdom she’s shared with you. 

                  8. Close the meditation. Affirm that the process is complete, all beings may return to where they came from, and you are free to rest. 

                  If you’d like to explore the gifts of the goddesses further, it’s not too late to join the Goddess Activation Series.

                  Each month, we meet with a different goddess to explore her gifts and receive an attunement to her energy. These are accessible 90 minute workshops and each is recorded in case you can’t make it live. 

                   
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                  The Protection of the Goddess: Evaluation of Past Life Vows

                  What happens when you’ve made a past life vow to a goddess? How our past life experiences with goddesses can both protect and empower us, as well as prevent our spiritual evolution.

                   
                   
                  moon goddess, goddess of the hunt

                  (image: Diana Hunting, Guillaume Seignac)

                   

                  Have you ever felt inexplicably drawn to a particular deity?

                  Many women today have past life connections with goddesses that greatly influence our current lives.

                  If, in a past life, you were part of the cult of a goddess, worshipped in her temple, or prayed and made offerings to her frequently, it's likely that your bond extends beyond one lifetime. She is most likely still here, with you, supporting and loving you in this lifetime.

                  There are a few goddesses that I've had lifelong connections with, and over time, it's been fascinating to uncover more dimensions of our history together.  Freya and Isis are two of my most steadfast allies, as is Diana....

                  Artemis to the Greeks and Diana to the Romans, this goddess reigns supreme over the hunt, wild animals, the wilderness, fertility, and the moon. An eternal virgin (which really means complete and sovereign in this context), Artemis-Diana has remained a powerful ally for many modern women today, acting as one of the primary goddess of witches and Wicca practitioners.

                  While I've felt connected with many goddesses over the years, I came to explore the fullness of my relationship with Diana relatively recently. (Interestingly, though I'm usually drawn to the Greek pantheon, it was always clear that my vows had been made to Diana rather than Artemis - perhaps a clue to when and where our lives together took place.)

                  Through a series of profound spiritual experiences, I discovered that I had been a priestess of Diana in many lives. Realizing my deep relationship with this goddess has been incredible empowering - and it has explained a lot. My natural ability to communicate with wild animals, comfort spending days alone in the wilderness, fierce protective instinct for women's sovereignty...

                  Under the Protection of Goddess Diana

                  Diana came to me full force during a shamanic initiation with a teacher who unfortunately was under the influence of her own shadow. (I didn't realize it immediately, but she was targeting me psychically and caused me real damage for many years.)

                  During one of our sessions together, she told me that it was time to break my past life vows with Diana. That whatever vows I made in the past were holding me back from my path in this lifetimes.

                  At the time, I really trusted this teacher. But my whole body screamed NO to the idea. I checked in with Diana and my other guides for perspective. They showed me that my vows to this goddesses were of love and freedom, they provided me with her protection and power but in no way held me back from anything my soul was called to do.

                  If I had allowed this teacher to break my vows, I would have been released from the protection of Diana. And it turned out, I really needed her protection around this teacher.

                  The Need to Reevaluate Past Life Vows

                  I do believe it's important to examine the vows we make in past lives, as not all of them are supportive. For example, had my vow included certain caveats, like remaining a virgin or rejecting wealth, I would likely suffer the consequences in this life - perhaps through relationship or financial challenges. It's always good to examine the agreements and vows we've made.

                  But whether to break your vows is always your decision — never let a teacher tell you what's best for you. By developing your own relationships with spirit guides in your life, and by learning to activate and trust your intuition, you will know what's best for you. This is one important element of cultivating your personal sovereignty.

                  Activate Your Own Connections with the Goddesses

                  Which goddesses do you feel a pull to? What clues to past life connections can you see? Do you sense any vows that it is now time to break? To rekindkle?

                  Leave a comment if so. I'd love to hear from you.

                  Want to deepen your connection with Diana? The Diana-Artemis Goddess Activation workshop is filled with practices and rituals and recipes and meditations and more.

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                    The Venusian Mysteries: Awakening the Sacred Feminine

                    The only planet named for a female deity, Venus is a loving and bright ally in restoring the sacred feminine to cosmic balance.

                     
                     
                     

                    I awoke before dawn, set the kettle for tea, and gazed out my windows into the still dark sky, just a soft glow on the horizon suggested the light was returning. 

                    As I peered between the giant evergreen bows that reach across my yard, I was greeted by the most beautiful sight—Venus. Rising in her morning star phase, Venus lit up like a beacon in the lapiz sky, calling my soul to recognize her presence.

                     
                    venus as morning star

                    my morning view of Venus

                     

                    Venus is a planet but also a celestial deity, and her gifts for humanity lie in helping us come into cosmic balance with the sacred feminine qualities of beauty, love, relationships, sensuality, and pleasure. 

                    Venus is a planet of beauty—symbolically and literally. Her presence shines brightest from our vantage upon the earth, and her trajectory creates a magnificent, symmetrical pattern.

                    The only planet named for a female deity, Venus is a loving and bright ally in restoring the sacred feminine to cosmic balance.


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                    Restoring the Feminine to Cosmic Balance with Beauty and Astrology

                    Anyone who’s gazed at Venus in her bright morning star phase can understand why the ancients associated this planet with beauty. I wonder if they also knew her trajectory through our skies is the most symmetrical of all the planets: Over an 8-year period, Venus makes 13 orbits around the sun and has 5 conjunctions with the earth. Visually, this creates a beautiful mandala based on the golden ratio—a pentagram of petals—which you can see in the image below. 

                     
                     

                    The 13 orbits that bring Venus back to her place of origin in our skies tie this planet to the feminine—13 has long been associated with women because of how we cycle and bleed with the 13 moons of the year. 

                    Even the symbol for the planet Venus is the same as that which commonly represents the feminine—a circle sitting upon a cross: ♀ If we see the circle as the infinite cycle and wholeness, and the cross as representing the four elements and four directions—that which makes our material reality—we can see this symbol as also calling forth the intersection of spirit and earth. 

                     
                     

                    In this symbol, we can see how Venus helps us bring spirit into manifest form—just as women bring spirit into form through the birthing process.

                    In astrology, Venus rules both Taurus and its home, the 2nd house, along with Libra and its home, the 7th house. Together, these elements celebrate the many qualities of Venus — the earthy, sensuality of Taurus, the values and emotions and sexiness of the 2nd house, the high culture and beauty of Libra, and the love and partnership of the 7th house.

                    Here, not only are the sacred qualities of the feminine celebrated, but they once again symbolize the harmonization of earth and spirit. Anytime we’re able to ground into the beauty of nature and the present moment, we experience Venusian blessings.


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                      The Venusian Deities

                      Though Venus is represented through a few male deities in different cultures (see below!), the vast majority of Venusian deities are female, especially within the cultures that have most influenced my own Western heritage.  

                      The Greek goddess Aphrodite is perhaps the most well-known Venusian deity for many of us, as she even carried the name Venus to the Romans. Yet if we trace the evolution of Aphrodite through time, we find that she may well have been born from earlier goddesses—Isis, or Auset, in Egypt, and Inanna, also known as Ishtar and Astarte, in Sumeria. All three goddesses carry the mantle of being Venusian goddesses of the ancient world.

                      Psst: You can get a free booklet filled with rituals to connect with Isis and other Egyptian deities here.

                      Botticelli’s Birth of Venus, unknown artist, Burney Relief

                      “Freyja and the Necklace” by James Doyle Penrose (1890)

                      In the Norse worlds, we see both Freya and Frigg associated with Venus. Both goddesses embody qualities of love, romance, fertility, and sacred sexuality, though Freya is more independent in her expression and Frigg, as the wife of Odin, is more matrimonial (many sources also conflate the goddesses into one). Interestingly, Friday is named for Frigg, and guess which planet rules Friday? Venus. 

                      Frigg by José-Patricio Aguirre

                      art by José-Patricio Aguirre

                      Now, let’s get a bit heretical…Do you know what the Roman word for Venus was? Lucifera. Yup. The very same word co-opted by Christans to describe the devil. Lucifera was used almost as suffix to many goddesses and sacred women’s names—Diana Lucifera most famously, but also Mary Magdalene, who was sometimes referred to as Mary Lucifera. 

                      Sex & Resurrection

                      Saint Mary Magdalene by Bernardino Luini

                      From what we know of Mary Magdalene, it’s likely she was not only a consort of Jesus but also a priestess in her own right. At the time, the art of sacred sexuality was practiced in the temples for communion and healing. And sex, in this sacred sense, is as Venusian as it gets—the sensuality, the romance, and harmony between masculine and feminine, and the fertile outcomes once again bringing spirit into material form. 

                      And while we’re looking at sacred sexuality in this Venusian context, it’s interesting to note the parallels between Isis bringing Osiris back to life and immediately consummating with him (which led to not only the birth of Horus but brought fertility to the land), and Mary Magdalene being the first to witness the resurrection of Jesus. I wonder if the way in which she anointed him before death, loved him beyond life, and cried tears of power into the earth, contributed to the magic that brought him back to life like Osiris. 

                      As a note on the theme of resurrection, we also see another Venusian goddess Aphrodite bring Adonis back to life through her pleas after he was killed by a wild boar.

                      It seems the Venusian power so naturally held by women—the power to commune with spirit, enjoy sensual pursuits, and bring life into being through the force of love—was a bit too threatening for the Church…

                      These tales of resurrection are also reflected in Venus’s orbit, as the planet cycles towards and away from the sun, symbolizing a natural cycle of birth and death.

                      The tale of the Venusian goddesses Inanna offers us a good reflection of how women can embody this cycle within themselves. Unlike the goddesses who resurrect their lovers to bring fertility to themselves and the land, Inanna is the one resurrected in her tale, modeling the feminine drive to face our shadows and integrate into wholeness. (Interestingly, she is hung on a cross before becomming resurrected…sound familiar?)

                      modern interpretation of Quetzalcoatl by BenArtsStudio on DeviantArt

                      The Venusian Masculine

                      Back to the male Venusian dieties…by far the most well-known masculine Venusian deity in modern days is Quetzalcoatl, a meso-American god. Quetzalcoatl was known as a feathered-serpent deity who brought fertile growth to the land. Again, we see the liminal meeting of spirit and earth in bird and snake, as well as sacred sexuality and fertility. In many ways, Quetzalcoatl offers us a model for how those in men’s bodies can embody the much-needed gifts of Venusian blessings, reminding us that we all have sacred masculine and feminine qualities within.

                      It’s time to allow Venus to upgrade our hearts.

                      As a planet that reminds us of the power of love, Venus could not be more important for us to connect with right now. 

                      I am, like I’m sure many of you are, an empath. 

                      Being an empath is not only a gift but is also the natural state of all humans, the state we are born into before culture and trauma cuts our hearts away from our innate ways of knowing. 

                      But being a really strong empath during times of mass hysteria, conflict, and trauma can be rough, even with the knowledge and skills to navigate these times. 

                      I find the vitriol, judgment, and especially righteousness I see online and in social media pressure cookers to be acutely painful. Just about all news—from left to right and mainstream to alt—has become a web of incendiary propaganda. When I turn into certain locations, I can energetically sense oppressive webs of fear hijacking people’s sovereignty. 

                      In all of these examples, I think what I find most heartbreaking is that people are being pulled off their path of spiritual evolution and heart-centered living. They are losing touch with what will actually help humanity survive the changes upon us: love and connection, with each other and the earth. 

                      Venus is a powerful ally in coming back into our hearts and allowing the wisdom of love to lead the way. 

                      Right now, Venus is in her heliacal rise toward the sun, allowing her divine beauty to be strengthened with solar blessings. Now it’s time to let the light of Venus and the Sun illuminate and strengthen the love within all of us. 

                      A PRACTICE

                      If possible, locate Venus in the sky — depending on her movements, dawn or dusk will be the best time.

                      Anoint your heart center with a sacred oil, preferably one containing rose — one of Venus’s favorite flowers. (The perfumes below are perfect for this practice.)

                      See the fragrant oil or perfume open a portal into your heart, a protected one that can only be entered by Venus herself.

                      Inhale, and feel Venusian blessings flow into your heart center.

                      When this practice feels complete, see the portal in your heart seal safely and give thanks to Venus.

                      As you go about your day, notice feelings of love and being loved fill your being. Practice seeing the world through a gaze of appreciation and gratitude for the beauty of life. Delight in the sensual experience of being embodied. Remember your true value and worth.

                      The Sensual Delight of Venusian Perfume

                      What could be more Venusian than a perfume dedicated to the goddess?

                      As a triple Libra, Venus is my ruling planet — meaning she’s especially influential in my life. It’s no wonder beauty is my core life code (you can read my artist statement here, just scroll down a bit). While I’ve always been an artist and experiment with many mediums, when I create perfumes I know they come straight from my soul. 

                      Many of the perfumes I’ve designed are dedicated to Venusian goddesses — so many, in fact, that I’ve decided to offer them all in a single discovery set. 

                      The Venusians Discovery Set includes six 1ml samples in glass vials, each perfume is all-natural (I’ve studied with the preeminent natural perfumers of today) and infused with the Venusian energy of goddesses from around the world

                      If you’re inspired to try these alchemical perfumes, please enjoy 10% off as my thanks for reading here :) Good now through the end of Venus’s retrograde on September 3rd, 2023. Use VENUSRX at checkout.

                       
                       

                       
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                      Reimagining Valentine’s Day - How does the divine feminine view this day of love and romance?

                      Valentine’s Day. Of all the holidays, this one seems to elicit such diverse reactions. It can be tempting to write off Valentine’s Day as an over-commercialized holiday that upholds patriarchal gender roles and relationship standards. But there is so much energy behind this day, centuries of energy, all focused upon February 14th as a day of love and romance. How can we harness this energy?

                       
                       
                       

                      Ah Valentine’s Day. Of all the holidays, this one seems to elicit such diverse reactions. From making time for a romantic evening with a loved one, to stressed out gift-givers complaining about it’s commercialization, to feminist critique of how patriarchal this holiday is, to the Singles Awareness Day effort...everyone seems to have their thoughts on February 14th.

                      I get it. It can be tempting to write off Valentine’s Day as an over-commercialized holiday that upholds patriarchal gender roles and relationship standards. 

                      But there is so much energy behind this day, centuries of energy, all focused upon February 14th as a day of love and romance. 

                      As someone who lives and breathes by reading energy, I just can’t ignore the energetic potency of Valentine’s Day. What if we could harness this energy to feed love, romance, and sensuality in their highest forms? What would this look like for ourselves and our loved ones? 

                      The energy of love is one of the highest frequencies we can attune to―and there are all types of love we can celebrate. 

                      Romance is the recognition that life is more than our routines and tasks―it’s an invitation to step outside of the ordinary and notice the beauty available to us if we only effort to notice. 

                      Sensuality is our ability to enjoy embodiment―more than vehicles to live through, our bodies can be portals to pleasure, intuition, and shared experiences. 

                      The invitation from the divine feminine energy rising throughout our planet is to harness the collective energy of this holiday to raise our vibrations of love and take time for pleasure.

                      Love and pleasure, even, and perhaps especially, in the midst of shutdowns and long winters.

                      This invitation will look different to everyone, and I encourage you to ask your heart what it most needs this Valentine’s Day. 

                      For those in relationships, this can be a powerful time to acknowledge and show your appreciation for your partner. If you’ve been distracted or just getting by each day, try pausing to deeply express your gratitude for all you love in your partner. 

                      This year will mean staying home and spending Valentine’s Day with the entire family this year for many. What if this became an opportunity to express familial love and appreciation?

                      If you’re trying to call in a partner, or if your relationship has been on the rocks, or your heartbroken, beat down, and tired, you might like to see if you can harness the energy of Valentine’s Day for your own rituals and reflections. What happens when you open your heart and feel into your deepest needs and desires? 

                      Regardless of our individual situations and needs, Valentine’s Day offers us all an invitation to engage in exquisite self care. To romance ourselves, engage our senses, and set aside precious time for pleasure and joy.  

                      For me, this almost always involves botanical treats―herbal teas, aromatic baths, body oils, homemade chocolates, perfumes...the plant world brings us both energetic and aromatic blessings. 

                      Enjoy these rituals and recipes for self care this Valentine’s Day, and explore the apothecary and perfumery for special Valentine’s Day gift sets, sensual perfumes, and heart-healing aromatherapy products. 

                       
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                      Curious as to a bit of the history behind this day, and why there’s so much energy here?

                      In many ways, Valentine’s Day is one of our more mysterious holidays as far as its origins go. There are at least three saints named Valentine or Valentinus, though legend has it that one in particular inspired the holiday: While in jail, he sent the first “Valentine” to his crush. And then he was martyred, so his legacy, now a quite romantic one, lived on. 

                      But all the saints get days. What made Saint Valentine’s day become such a popular holiday?

                      For this, like with many holidays, we need to look further to the past and the ancient Roman celebration of Lupercalia―a fertility festival celebrated mid-February. As Christianity spread, this festival was outlawed.

                      Still, in the Middle Ages, February 14th was known as the day the bird began mating—the love and fertility connections continued…

                      Whatever the origins, we can trace the popularizing of Valentine’s Day with romantic love to Chaucer, and this holiday has continued to celebrate love and romance ever since. 

                       
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